The fall season is gaining momentum and with it, the return of television premiers. As an unabashed lover of TV, I can honestly say that fall is one of my favorite times of year. Yes, I enjoy the vibrant colors and crisp smells of autumn, but I also love the mind-numbing pleasure that an hour or two in front of the television can deliver. Even though I am an avid reader, at least I used to be before I had but twenty minutes of alone time each morning to sit with a book, my brain is too harried by evening’s end to absorb actively anything not imagined on a 27” screen. It’s an excuse, but it’s also the truth.
I waited, almost impatiently, for the premier of Kid Nation. For those of you who are not familiar with this highly-anticipated reality show, let me explain the premise. Forty kids, ranging in ages from 8-15 years, are left alone for 40 days to revive a ghost town in an isolated city of New Mexico. Even before the show aired, it received criticism for its apparent disregard for the safety of children. Program previews showed kids hauling heavy carts, lighting fires, tending to animals, and bickering amongst themselves. Of course, I wanted to see what all the fuss concerned.
The first episode aired with 36 kids debarking a bus in the middle of nowhere. They were greeted by the host, an amiable big-brother type, and told to wait for the arrival of their leaders. When a helicopter landed with what contained the members of the town council, the group was surprised to see not four adults, but four other children, an equal split of boys and girls, handpicked for their demographic representation of the group.
The kids were then instructed to haul heavy loads of supply and various animals to the town, far-off to some, but I’m guessing not more than a mile down the road. As the cameras followed the kids through the town, the audience became privy to the fact that this was not a real ghost town, but an elaborate set contrived by the producers. To the kids, however, it was real enough, and I am sure there were plenty of them who believed the town was once inhabited by miners, prospectors, bandits, and every other type of pre-modern city dweller. In any event, buildings and props were staged. Obviously.
Emotions ran high as some of the youngest in the group began to experience the pangs of homesickness, and who can blame the few for shedding tears? I’m an adult, and I am sure I would miss my family fiercely if I had to go without their kisses and hugs for forty days, too. Groups banded together, however, with cooperation and sportsmanship being challenged in true reality-TV form. As a prize for completing their task as a group and on time, the kids were awarded additional outhouses to accommodate their number of hineys.
At the conclusion of the episode, the council awarded a gold star, worth $20K, to one of the girls for stepping up to the plate and preparing meals for the masses, one that consisted of a gooey mess of overcooked pasta. Also at that time, all of the children were given the opportunity to go home, only one did.
Not very long ago, I came across a blog entry in my Google Reader in which the author summed up the show as “disgusting.” She sited this article by the New York Times, which questioned the possible violation of personal safety as well as child labor laws. Just as adults are bound by a reality-TV contract, so, too, are children and their adult guardians. What topped the cake, however, was a comment left by one of the readers:
“I think the people who thought of this show are sick, the people who gave the green light are idiots, and the parents who allowed their kids to be on are the worst of all. Everyone involved should go to jail for child endangerment as far as I am concerned.”
So here it is. Obviously (according to that commenter), I am one of those sick parents who would allow her child to be taken advantage of, to be purposefully placed in harm’s way, and who should be locked away for child endangerment. Give. Me. A. Break.
First of all, Kid Nation is nothing but a television show whose creators, like other reality-show creators, are masters at producing and editing and contriving. Never once were these kids actually left alone. In fact, an interview with the kids post-show revealed that there were more adults than children (according to one of the council members). Moreover, while there may have been injuries, they were minor and treated immediately by professionals. As far as the contract is concerned, of course there are going to be confidentiality agreements put in place to protect the integrity of the show. Likewise, some kids are going to be portrayed as the star, the do-gooder, the vindictive plotter, the whiney brat; that’s what makes reality TV.
I have a feeling the kids were not just randomly chosen, either. I suspect they were chosen based on their strengths and weaknesses, as was evident by the revelation that many had grown up on farms, apprenticed in a butcher shop, or helped with construction. I’m sure some of these kids were chosen, as well, for the simple fact they have never milked a goat or been forced to clean up after himself or work in a group or stepped outside a sprawling city.
My opinion of the kids is this: I couldn’t be more impressed by their bravery, smarts, wit, or compassion, and I would gladly allow my eight-year-old to take part in the show. They handle grown-up tasks and responsibilities with grace and dignity, much better than most adults, and I find myself in awe of them.
You couldn’t get me to slaughter and clean a chicken. That’s for sure.
Kid Nation can be seen on CBS, Wednesday evenings at 8 PM eastern. You can also visit the website to learn more about the show and watch full-length episodes.

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September 28, 2007 at 9:16 am
Melissa
I was interested in watching this show after all the controversy. I managed to catch a bit of the first episode, and realized too that it was a set and I imagined adults must have been nearby. I felt many of the kids worked so well together. I wouldn’t mind watching it again.
September 28, 2007 at 10:00 am
Sonya
KID NATION ROCKS! It’s a great show. It shows to people that we can’t estimate children. They are strong, brave and smart!
I’m sure these kids are safe.
September 28, 2007 at 10:19 am
Stephanie
We watch it with our kids. I would allow my children to take part and they have also said they would want to go to prove that kids can do a lot of work. We have had GREAT family discussions on conflict/resolution and leadership issues based on this show. We’ve talked a lot about how everyone has to work together, and how sometimes it is hard to be a leader when you are younger than the person you’re trying to lead.
I do feel that the show is a bit hokey at parts and it really does feel like there are adults directing the action.
I’ve read a couple of boards that lament the fact that kids don’t really talk this way. Especially when it comes to Jared. I disagree completely. I have a fairly precocious nine year old and he would talk like this.
September 28, 2007 at 12:31 pm
Corey
I am not so sure I would jump at this chance, just because I am so fearful of leaving my daughter with strangers for a day, let alone 40 days.
I am the type of mother who needs to feel connected to my girl and how she is feeling. I would not like her being dissconnected from me in that way. I would want to be there to help her process what is going on and how she is doing emotionally. If she were to get very upset about something, I would hate to be so far away from her.
I know that I tend to be quite over protective, but I just don’t trust that TV producers and such have my child’s best interest in mind. They have the shows best interest in mind.
September 28, 2007 at 3:07 pm
Mike
Hmm. Now you made me interested on Kid Nation.
Mike
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September 28, 2007 at 5:00 pm
twiddletails
I’m so with you on this. I think this would be a wonderful, growing experience for any child. And as for them being left on their own - do these people think children operate the cameras and sound equipment and direct the whole thing? I can see that there can be more adults than kids out there. I really enjoy watching these kids come into their own.
September 29, 2007 at 10:21 am
Linda
We watched the first two episodes. My kids actually like the show and my eight year old said she wishes she could go there!
Of course there are adults there…..I am also sure they have plenty of medical staff in case something happens.
I do not see anything wrong with it.
(Of course we had to fast foward the chicken part last week)!
Linda
September 29, 2007 at 9:17 pm
kristi
As I am an unabashed reality tv addict, I of course
tuned in to watch Kid Nation. There was never
any doubt in my mind that these kids were under
supervision, and also are highly coached in what to say, how to act, etc. I did have a very serious problem with the chicken slaughtering, however, as there was serious potential for a very inhumane killing, not to mentiion the fact that the kids who watched the slaughter may need some therapy down the road. It’s one thing to eat the chicken your parents cook you for dinner. It’s another thing entirely to watch your meal die in front of you. I thought the entire chicken plot (an idea that was planted in the kids’ minds after they read about it in the book) was very exploitive.
That said, I will of course be tuning in next Wednesday!
September 30, 2007 at 4:10 pm
donetta
I, like Stephanie below, use this show as a conversational tool. We watch it with our kids and have discussed character and behavioral actions taken by the children on the show. Feelings have been shared and expressed with a visible example.
My 10 year old daughter likes that they don’t give up.
My 6year old son likes the sportsmanship he does not like the bullying though.
It shows examples of how it looks to behave.
October 1, 2007 at 9:54 pm
Pinks & Blues Girls
I haven’t seen any episodes of this show, but I have heard about the hoopla surrounding it. Like you said, no network would put children in real danger and risk the fallout that would accompany doing so. It’s just another “reality” show with very little reality!
Jane, Pinks & Blues
March 26, 2008 at 10:56 am
earthgirluv
I think you should respect the life of the animal your eating. If you can’t stomach the reality of where the meat comes from, and honor the life that is is passing on to you, then you shouldn’t eat it.
~peace~