by Lis Garrett,
a mom who lets her children do the decorating
and who remembers to water the tree each day
Real or artificial?
Up until the year I got married, I never once considered decorating a real Christmas tree. Having grown up in the south, the thought of choosing a tree from the parking lot of a gas station seemed unappealing and devoid of holiday magic. Additionally, with my mother being the decorating guru in which all things had to be just so, the notion of finding the perfect live tree meant going home disappointed.
I once suggested an artificial tree in our early years of marriage, and the idea itself was the scandal of the century among my northerly, thick-skinned, newly extended family. I learned quickly not to mention the unmentionable again.
Each year, on the first Saturday of December, we bundle up in our warmest clothes and head for the hills, just north of Ithaca, to Moore’s Tree Farm, home to 35 acres of prickly Spruce varieties and feathery-soft Firs. Guess which kind of tree we prefer? To say that this holiday excursion is one of the highlights of our year would be a gross understatement. My kids live for this day, which, for us, symbolizes the official start of the Christmas season.
Despite the weather, which has ranged from sunny skies with not an inch of snow on the ground, to negative windchills and knee-deep drifts, we never fail to have an excellent time hunting for our tree. Our choices are hardly perfect, and we still laugh about the time, two years ago, when we mistakenly chose a tree that was much too large for our small space. Instead of removing excess tree from the bottom, my husband cut from the top, instead, leaving us with a tree in the shape of an isosceles trapezoid. Needless to say, we didn’t have company over that Christmas!
Moore’s Tree Farm not only mails us a coupon each year, they shake and bale the tree and give the kids free coloring books and candy canes. We even occasionally see Santa taking a much-needed break from his busy toy-making schedule. Should you require a hot cocoa to warm your hands and belly on those blustery December days, there’s a food hut to provide sweet and savory treats. In addition to trees, Moore’s offers a wide variety of holiday wreaths, kissing balls, and other green accessories in their barn.
Some may argue that cutting down a real tree is bad for the environment, but Moore’s and I couldn’t disagree more with that thought. While artificial trees are made of petroleum products and stay in our landfills for years, Christmas trees are considered recyclable materials, grown and harvested with sustainability in mind. Read this before you argue that cutting down a Christmas tree couldn’t possibly be an environmentally-friendly ritual.
Real trees just smell much nicer than artificial trees, anyway.
I’m getting excited! See you December 1st, Moore’s Tree Farm.
*This post was not endorsed by Moore’s Tree Farm. I just think they’re really great.*
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November 30, 2007 at 3:35 am
Michelle at Scribbit
Oh our family has cut our trees since the 40s. A VERY big tradition. We’ve got this year’s trip for cutting scheduled Dec 10th and we’re all excited.
November 30, 2007 at 7:58 am
kristi
I grew up with live trees that we chose from a variety of organizations who sold them, and I’ve always had a live tree in my homes. Yes, they’re messier, and yes, they can often be a pain to put up, but I can’t imagine having anything but a live tree.
We always recycle our tree once the season is over as well. My husband was quite annoyed when we moved in together and he realized that I don’t just throw my trees to the side of the road on garbage day, and that he would be required to tie it to his car’s roof and drive it to the recycling drop-off station.
November 30, 2007 at 11:34 am
Kathleen
I am all for getting a real tree. But it has to involve a trip to a tree farm. Going to a tree farm is much more in the spirit than going to the corner lot! The one we go to has carollers, hot chocolate and sleigh rides.
Around here the trees are grown on land that isn’t good enough for food crops. Often it’s rocky or hilly. We also have various tree recycling programs, one chips the trees for mulch, the other uses the trees to stabilize stream banks, thus protecting our local salmon habitat!
November 30, 2007 at 11:43 am
Stephanie
That sounds absolutely delightful. What a great family tradition. We (er, my husband) just put up our tree last night and the decor always brightens my spirits.
November 30, 2007 at 1:12 pm
Tiffany
I grew up in Kansas and one year my mom bought a fake tree because she wanted to save money each year. I think they are still using the same tree - it has to be at least 15 to 20 years old! My husband grew up buying a real tree every year and we have continued to do the same thing - I love the smell of real trees.
November 30, 2007 at 1:35 pm
gary
You’re right about spruces. I bought an extremely cute live (as in potted, plant outside in the spring) spruce at Wegmans and !!! Decorating with gloves, you know?
November 30, 2007 at 5:06 pm
Jennifer
i would love to have a real tree if it promised not to shed and make more work for me. artificial it is.
December 1, 2007 at 1:27 pm
Susan from Food Blogga
I’m so happy your children will have this memory, Melissa. We always had artificial until I started dating my husband in college. His family went to a tree farm every year on his b-day, Dec. 7th, and selected a tree. Then we did it for several years until we moved away. I miss that tradition, but I love the memories.
December 1, 2007 at 10:54 pm
tracey
I agree on the fake trees. They stay around FOREVER and the real ones continue to produce oxygen and provide homes for animals until their day of reckoning…
We are heading out tomorrow morning to a tree farm very similar to yours. Lots of cookies, cocoa and perfect trees. Hope the icy roads clear up!